How To Control Obsessive Girlfriends?
Some guys find their girlfriends getting too obsessive about them. They start questioning everything, it might be a sign of extreme possessiveness or even a low level of self esteem on the part of your girlfriend. There is definitely something in imbalance here, because not one who is completely balanced gets obsessive.
These are the symptoms which shows that your girlfriend is getting too obsessive of you
1. She is constantly nagging you about anything and everything, almost getting motherly with you.
2. She keeps calling up to find out where you are and who you are with. There is a complete lack of trust and almost a paranoia that you will dump her.
3. She wants to get married as quickly as possible even if you say are not ready.
4. She goes into a hysteria every time you talk to some other girl
5. She hates it when you are hanging out with your friends without her
Jealously and possessive are normal in any relationship. There are lot of guys who are very possessive of their girlfriend, and vice versa. What we are talking about her is not possessiveness but extreme obsessive behavior, which feels abnormal. If you feel suffocated by her constant presence, it would indicate obsessive behavior on her part.
Obsessive girls lack self esteem
That's a fact. When you feel a lack within you, there is tendency to reach outward for something to fill it. A relationship is usually the best filler for most. Most people have a feeling of lack in their life and that's normal. What abnormal is a deep lack, which bring out obsessive wanting.
Girls who have had a healthy relationship with their father usually tend to have high self esteem. Their father is usually the source of strength and security in the family. A girl's relationship with her father moulds her life, if it has been healthy and loving she turns out into a well balanced girl. Lack of care and love from her father can result in a lack of self esteem and an outward seeking of attention. Such girls become paranoid of losing attention and love from their boyfriend.
How to deal with obsessive behavior
The right way is to let her know that you love her and that she needs to learn to trust you. Tell her very clearly that you need some space to be with your friends, and that you are not comfortable with such possessive behavior.
Communicating properly can solve most problems. She might not even be aware that she is being obsessive, when you point it out to her she might feel offended hurt but she will think about it. People change for the better when they become aware of what they are doing wrong.
You can tell her once or may be even a second time. If she continues behaving in a manner which annoys you, it's time to move on. Being comfortable is what relationship is all about, if you no longer feel comfortable around a person it's difficult to continue your relation.
Some guys find their girlfriends getting too obsessive about them. They start questioning everything, it might be a sign of extreme possessiveness or even a low level of self esteem on the part of your girlfriend. There is definitely something in imbalance here, because not one who is completely balanced gets obsessive.
These are the symptoms which shows that your girlfriend is getting too obsessive of you
1. She is constantly nagging you about anything and everything, almost getting motherly with you.
2. She keeps calling up to find out where you are and who you are with. There is a complete lack of trust and almost a paranoia that you will dump her.
3. She wants to get married as quickly as possible even if you say are not ready.
4. She goes into a hysteria every time you talk to some other girl
5. She hates it when you are hanging out with your friends without her
Jealously and possessive are normal in any relationship. There are lot of guys who are very possessive of their girlfriend, and vice versa. What we are talking about her is not possessiveness but extreme obsessive behavior, which feels abnormal. If you feel suffocated by her constant presence, it would indicate obsessive behavior on her part.
Obsessive girls lack self esteem
That's a fact. When you feel a lack within you, there is tendency to reach outward for something to fill it. A relationship is usually the best filler for most. Most people have a feeling of lack in their life and that's normal. What abnormal is a deep lack, which bring out obsessive wanting.
Girls who have had a healthy relationship with their father usually tend to have high self esteem. Their father is usually the source of strength and security in the family. A girl's relationship with her father moulds her life, if it has been healthy and loving she turns out into a well balanced girl. Lack of care and love from her father can result in a lack of self esteem and an outward seeking of attention. Such girls become paranoid of losing attention and love from their boyfriend.
How to deal with obsessive behavior
The right way is to let her know that you love her and that she needs to learn to trust you. Tell her very clearly that you need some space to be with your friends, and that you are not comfortable with such possessive behavior.
Communicating properly can solve most problems. She might not even be aware that she is being obsessive, when you point it out to her she might feel offended hurt but she will think about it. People change for the better when they become aware of what they are doing wrong.
You can tell her once or may be even a second time. If she continues behaving in a manner which annoys you, it's time to move on. Being comfortable is what relationship is all about, if you no longer feel comfortable around a person it's difficult to continue your relation.