Why Doesn't My Girlfriend Call or Answer Me?
The only reason why she is not calling you is because her interest level is low. She does not feel strongly attracted to you. She is busy with a lot of other things and in between she does not even remember to call you. It's a case of lack of interest or attraction.
The sooner you accept the fact that she is not interested in you, the better. It time to evaluate a few things that you might be doing wrong which is causing her interest level to dip. Just ask yourself a few things
Are you obsessed with your girlfriend, so much so that its evident in your behavior? Do you keep calling her to find out what she is up to?
Are you sure that she is committed to you as her boyfriend?
Does she spend more time at her work or with her friends than with you?
These are some hard questions you need to ask yourself to get a reality check done. It does not make sense to delude yourself about anything. To face up to reality is far less painful than to get hit by uncertainty.
Does she really love you?
If she really loves you there would be no reason for her not to call you up frequently or return your calls immediately. May be she was in love with you and then her interest level dipped. The only way you can up her interest level is by generating attraction. Here are few things you can try.
The only reason why she is not calling you is because her interest level is low. She does not feel strongly attracted to you. She is busy with a lot of other things and in between she does not even remember to call you. It's a case of lack of interest or attraction.
The sooner you accept the fact that she is not interested in you, the better. It time to evaluate a few things that you might be doing wrong which is causing her interest level to dip. Just ask yourself a few things
Are you obsessed with your girlfriend, so much so that its evident in your behavior? Do you keep calling her to find out what she is up to?
Are you sure that she is committed to you as her boyfriend?
Does she spend more time at her work or with her friends than with you?
These are some hard questions you need to ask yourself to get a reality check done. It does not make sense to delude yourself about anything. To face up to reality is far less painful than to get hit by uncertainty.
Does she really love you?
If she really loves you there would be no reason for her not to call you up frequently or return your calls immediately. May be she was in love with you and then her interest level dipped. The only way you can up her interest level is by generating attraction. Here are few things you can try.
- Become completely aloof. Let her miss you. See if she calls up to check on you.
- Don't bother calling her up even if she does not call you. Wait for her call. If she does not call at all, then you need to break off with her and move on.
- Let her know that you are feeling a bit pissed off with her behavior. There is nothing wrong in expressing what you feel inside.
- Be dominant and always behave with authority. If a certain behavior is not to your liking just stop encouraging it. If she takes you granted it would show a lack of interest on her part.
